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E.Z. Prine's avatar

The problem with the phone is the lack of facial cues and body language with which to make meaning and interpretation of the other person's state and communication. Same with any non face-to-face communication.

It's one reason why psychopaths and sociopaths and fake personas have been able to ascend so far so quickly. We are lacking the unconsious cues that trigger our survival defence mechanisms, the behaviors that cause the hairs on the back of our necks to stand up and alerts our conscious mind to the fact that something does not add up here.

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Hannahlehigh's avatar

I miss seeing my daughter but getting a phone call is always nice as she lives over 300 miles away, the problem is, she doesn't call, she texts and I hate that, which Ive told her many times. I absolutely hate texts and cell phones, mine stays in a faraday bag unless I need it on the road, which is rare. Kids today think texting is fine but it's not, it's destructive to the human connection and we've really lost that. I have had a landline my entire life, Im 72 so its been along time. If cell phones went away tomorrow Id cheer. Thanks for your post Celia, it made me think.

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