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I love you, Celia, because you never run away from truth.

No matter how much it hurts.

Thank you, sister, for all you show us.

❤️‍🩹

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"If somebody could tell me how to devote my life to fighting this evil, I would. Most of us would. Today I heard a survivor of sexual abuse in his work as a young actor, a black man, describe his torment."

Celia, your answer is in the thesis of this article. Strong, loving fathers. Strong men. Masculinity. Strong families need a strong leader. Families are made of one male and one female. Those counterparts make a beautiful symphony. But it's the man's role to lead, protect, and defend his family. One of the other lies is "toxic masculinity" which lampoons this natural, and necessary propensity. There's nothing toxic about fatherhood, nor in being a husband. So, if you really want to do something to fight this evil, look around you and notice the families that are straining to stay together. Model and actively encourage the sacrificial love that makes marriage possible, and give those folks around you who are tempting divorce encouragement hold on. Encourage the husband to sacrifice himself to his wife in service and duty to her. Encourage the wife to value, encourage, and uplift her husband because of his service to her. How does this work? Maybe I should write a blog for you to post... Just know that it does! I faced a divorce once too. The only thing that stopped us from doing it was that we were both too stubborn to do the paperwork. However, what turned us around was embracing our natural, God-given roles: mine as the submissive wife. His as the strong, loving protective leader. Feminists just rage screamed. I don't care. Masculinity is beautiful, and seeing it that way saved my marriage. Seeing myself in a more feminine way--actively being more feminine in submission to my husband--that turned the ship around and got us sailing to better shores. We're 14 years into marriage today, and plan to die together. Thank the Lord.

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